So many people go into relationships expecting to feel the same over time. How many times have I heard (or said) people say "I don't feel the same anymore." Love is not a static emotion. It's not a noun; it's a verb.
In the same way, love is not supposed to feel the same. It's limitless, ever present, and, unlike most of us, it allows for change. There comes a moment where you have to decide if, in every relationship, you're going to be committed to seeing people's innocence or seeing their guilt.
If you're always looking for what someone does wrong, guess what? You'll always find it.
On the other hand, if you see people with the awe and passion of a first kiss, they'll never disappoint you. You'll see in them things you've never seen before. You'll marvel at the beauty, excitement, and joy of who they really are. You'll go into every moment, even the not-so-great ones, looking for their next evolution.
Let's get out of our love ruts by doing one simple thing- allowing people to change right before our eyes IN EVERY MOMENT...