I hear so many people theorize and theologize about transformation to the point where, for many, transformation comes across as some sort of ascension into the unreal. That sort of theorizing will not help you get through the daily grind of what it means to transform.
Transformation is growth and growth can be painful. There are moments on the journey to extraordinary success where you feel stunted, stuck, stagnant or some wierd combination of all three. What do you do when that happens?
Here are three things you CAN do when change feels like its too little, too much and, at the same time, too hard:
1) Remind yourself that nothing stays the same. Everything is a constant state of change. Seasons pass, people age, jobs change, lives change, everything changes. Whatever is going on right now will pass. Before you know it, it'll be a memory. Why linger on the negative of your change when the positive that's resulting is SO MUCH MORE POWERFUL?
2) Feel what you feel. Whether it's fear, sadness, pain, anger, frustration, or disappointment, allow yourself to feel it. Only by allowing it to be will you give those feelings the permission to move through you. The more you fight those feelings, the tighter you cling to them. The best way to let go is to allow them to move through you and, once out, refill your mind with thoughts of love.
3) Breathe. When we feel tension, distress, or worry, the first thing we stop doing is breathing. Breath is the key to life; it's at the heart of peace. When you're in a worry episode or when you feel like you're not as far along as you'd like to be, stop and breathe. Take 12 deep breaths and, with each exhalation, let it all go...
There are many roads to extraordinary success. Rather than talking about it, I want you to BE about it. Do the daily work. It WILL pay off:)
Friday, August 7, 2009
- Other People's Opinions (Read Time: 3 min.)
- Stop, Retreat, Ask, & Say... (Read Time: 2 min.)
- Two Halves Do Not Make a Whole (Read Time: 3 min.)...
- You are Not Your Parents (Read Time: 2 min.)
- It Is Your Movie! (Read Time: 2 min.)
- Do First, Speak Last (Read Time: 3 min.)
- What Does Transformation Really Require? (Read Tim...
- A Full Time Love Affair (Read Time: 3 min.)
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